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Volume 43..Number 3.. 2008

UPCOMING SERVICES

November 2
Pennies from Heaven
Rev. Julie Denny-Hughes

At the moment the pennies aren’t coming from anywhere else, so this might be the time to hope for a miracle! And what is a miracle other than a usual event happening at an unusual time? This is the canvass sermon. Bring your checkbooks.

November 9
The Unitarian Universalist UN Office
Valerie Chapman; Service Leader: Glenda Butt

Valerie discusses some of the prolific amount of work done at the United Nations by NGOs, religious organizations, non-profits and ordinary people who passionately support and believe in the UN.

November 16
The Nature of Ministry
Rev. Julie Denny-Hughes

Julie will speak on ministerial responsibilities, ministerial authority, authority in general, and the basic concept of obedience for the greater good. If you have specific questions let me know in advance at revjuliedennyhughes@yahoo.com, 429-5500, or 404-2120, except Monday and Thursday.

November 23
Triangles
Rev. Julie Denny-Hughes

The ancient Egyptian architects and Unitarian Buckminster Fuller knew the beauty and power of triangles. The triangles we create within our human relations are also beautiful and powerful, but they can make a real mess of things. Please bring a pen or pencil.

November 30
The God Delusion
Presenter: Philip Welch; Service Leader: Margaret Galbraith

The God Delusion is a best seller by pre-eminent evolutionary biologist Richard Dawkins. Dawkins contends that a supernatural creator almost certainly does not exist and religious faith is a delusion. Dawkin’s arguments will be presented and explored. Are they tenable? convincing? persuasive? Does Dawkins have a message for Middle East fundamentalism? for Middle American fundamentalism? For us?

MINISTER’S PAGE


You’re Invited. . .

When a congregation searches for a settled minister, the candidate chosen by the Search Committee meets the entire congregation (committees and individuals) for a whole week and then the mutual decision is made. The search for a contract minister is very different. I did not meet with the entire congregation, and I feel like I’m playing catch up. As far as we know now, we have two years together and a lot of work to get done in that time. It’s time to get started in earnest.

So, I’ve planned a flurry of get-togethers in November so that I can listen to your understanding of our priorities, listen to your hopes, your concerns, and your good ideas. I want to hear what you need from your church and from me, and what it is that you have to give. I’m keeping the groups small (no more than ten) and the time short (one hour) to ensure everyone has a chance to participate. Gatherings will be scheduled for mid-day (bring your own lunch), late afternoon, evening and weekends.

If an entire committee wants to attend as a group but can’t find a date that works, please tell me and I’ll schedule myself to your calendar. Committees are the backbone of the programs and work of the church, so are essential to the conversations.

Tuesday, November 4: 12:30 (bring a bag lunch if you want)
Wednesday, November 5: 7:00
Thursday, November 6: 5:30
November 7 – 13 I’ll be away at the Eastern Regional Meeting
Saturday, November 15: 10:00
Sunday, November 16: 12:15
Tuesday, November 18: 5:30
Wednesday, November 19: 7:00
Thursday, November 20: 12:30 (bring a bag lunch if you want)
Saturday, November 21: 10:00

Ten meetings with ten people each ought to cover it. You can sign up on the sheets in the foyer or call the church office: 429-5500. If you want to meet with me alone (for any reason at all), just give me a call. Except for Mondays (my Sabbath) and Thursdays (sermon prep) I’m yours – and even then I’m always available in an emergency. My home phone is 404-2120. My emergency cell phone is 495-8619.


President’s Message

The frost is now silvering the fields every morning, and the leaves are falling into blankets of gold on the roads; that means fall is firmly here and winter is coming. Last week’s Semi-Annual General Meeting reminds us of the continuity of our community and our ongoing commitment to UU values, including the joys of this wonderful interconnected web of life we share.

I owe a great big thank you to Lars for managing the presidency for the last 18 months, and I look forward to continuing his calm leadership, and to working with Vestry on achieving our goals in future. I also look forward to working with the Reverend Julie as she helps us move toward growth in our lay leadership, in our membership, and in our presence in the community.

There are lots of exciting things happening in the next few months, and I hope many of you are noting them on your calendars and planning to participate. We have several musical evenings planned, several training workshops in the works, and lots of fellowship and joy to be shared. We have plans to make for the Green Sanctuary Program, and food to bake for Hope Cottage and our social events. Read your newsletter carefully and sign up!

Please feel free to contact me if you have any questions or concerns. I’m looking forward to a great year – hope all of you are, too!

Susan Stephen

Religious Education

This year we are learning about world religions. In September we learned about Judaism, finishing the month by making cards for Rosh Hashana and having a special holiday snack of apple slices dipped in honey. In October we have been learning about Islam, and started with a guest presentation on Ramadan. We will continue in November with a look at Hinduism.

Some resources for further exploration are: The Illustrated Dictionary of Religions by Philip Wilkinson, Celebrations Around the World by Carole S. Angell and What I Believe by Alan Brown and Andrew Langley. The public library also has an excellent selection of books on religion for children. Angela Wood has a series on the sacred spaces of several religions, and Sue Penney has written a series called Discovering Religions. Both series are well worth investigating.

As always, our goal is to provide a relaxed and enjoyable experience for the children. Weekly attendance is not required, although we are always happy to see you. We also welcome visitors from the congregation; please drop by upstairs if you are curious. If you have any questions, please feel free to contact me at 422-7003 or lmalloch@gmail.com, or catch me after a service.

Louise Malloch

COMMITTEES

Membership Matters

Welcome to Marilyn Shinyei who joined on October 19th. Marilyn and Frank have moved here from Edmonton where Marilyn was active in the Unitarian Church there. Please be sure to chat with Marilyn and Frank because we are their church family now.

About fifteen new people must like something about UUCH because they keep coming back! We will present a New UU Orientation for these friendly, interesting people on Saturday, November 29th. We’ll speak with each new person individually to explain more about this valuable, heart-warming experience.

That name tag thing again... Think you’re immune to recent urgings to wear your nametag on Sundays because you lost yours? Well, guess what, you have one now! Look for your new badge on the rack and there it’ll be in glowing colour. Wear it proudly as you befriend visitors and newcomers to help them and Rev. Julie become acquainted with us. We are a small, more family-like group than big churches—so we can and should do this. Thanks, everyone.

Etta Hamm

Kitchen Talk

Remember the “kitchen party” two years ago when we got our super-duper, industrial strength dishwasher? Well, we didn’t stop there. A small group of us subsequently de-cluttered the entire kitchen and tossed things that were bent, broken, stained, tired, useless, disgusting, superfluous, and taking up space for no good reason.

This freed up space for what was left (which was a lot) and enabled us to put everything in its place (which is great). We marveled at the kindness of members who had supplied our kitchen so generously over the years. We bought a few small needs and now enjoy a neat, well-stocked kitchen.
Should the need arise for specific items you could possibly donate, we’ll put the call out—but nothing is needed at present. Thank you for your generosity always—and for your cooperation in keeping our kitchen clutter-free.

Now don’t forget to take your bowls and pots and pans home after potlucks! Thanks.

The Jolly Maids

A UU FAMILY FEAST

It is likely that on Thanksgiving day some of our less fortunate citizens could not find their way to the free dinners at shelters and centres and missed out on a feast. I was one of the more fortunate people. I shared my Thanksgiving day dinner with my Universalist Unitarian Church family... and my sweetie, L.A. ... and my guide dog, Opal... and L.A's mum... and UU congregants and their friends and family members... and Reverend Julie (her first Canadian Thanksgiving).

Reverend Julie asked us to speak out the name of one person who we would most want with us, but who could not be there to share with us; those who live away, those who are ill, those who have passed on. Voices sprang up around the room, "Ivy”, Billy", "Lorena"... I whispered, "mum".

e food was potluck, but oh, how extraordinary. It was one of those unusually well-organized potlucks that went off without a hitch–many thanks to Belinda and her stalwart crew. No tables were set ablaze from the candles, no one choked on the turkey (regular, free range, and 'Tofurkey' my vegan contribution for Norm). None of the kids hurt themselves or others.

We ate the best food, all carefully prepared by everyone, in a civilized, joyous mood. Yes there was wine, but unlike some nightmarish family dinners of my childhood, no one got drunk. Volunteers cheerfully did as they were requested; setting up tables, dressing tables, decorating, schlepping stuff from home, working collaboratively to eat as a large group. The dishes got washed instead of broken. Music played at an appropriate volume instead of deafening people.

The leftovers were distributed to those with not much at home. Photographs were snapped, yet no one minded. I hugged my sweetie and held her hand and no one cared. Opal lay quietly as we feasted ( I fed her after). The rain stopped long enough for the kids to go out and play. People talked and talked like long lost friends, even though many of us had just been at service the day before. It was the perfect family dinner. It was so UU.

Helen McFadyen

HOPE COTTAGE

Monday November 10th is our last Hope Cottage dinner date in 2008. Please add your name to the food contributor sign-up sheet posted on the entranceway bulletin board if you can contribute. Contact Kathy Spencer for further details.

Fellowship

Well the Thanksgiving Dinner was a huge success. I was just sad it was over so soon. I would like to thank the many volunteers without whose help this event would have been much harder to execute. The food contributions were fantastic…with an overflow on the buffet table. Alison you outdid yourself! Lastly, thank you to Mary Lu, the choir, and Allyn and Sandra Clarke for their contribution of the turkeys.

On to the next fellowship event!

In November we have the Canvass Kickoff on the 2nd, and the Gospel Night on the 22nd, put on by the Music Committee. Food may be required for either of these events. I will keep you posted via email and announcements.

I suppose we should be thinking about December and the Candlelight Gathering, the Tree Trimming Party, the Mitten Tree, New Years Pancake Breakfast and many other events we could plan for this festive time of year. Remember I am a vessel for your fellowship needs and wants so speak up if you have an idea outside our usual events. Don’t forget to partake in one of Allyn’s outdoor events… they feed the soul.

Please let me know if you want to come to a fellowship event but something is preventing you from participating. We are very understanding and will go out of our way to solve whatever issue you have whether it is transportation, dietary, or social.

I’ll finish today with a quote from Meditation for Living in Balance, by Anne Wilson Schaef.

When one door of happiness closes, another opens, but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.—Helen Keller

Belinda Ward

MUSIC NOTES

Gospel Sing-Along Evening

Saturday, November 22nd at 7:30 PM
There will be lots of opportunity to participate
and enjoy some special presentations.
Free will offering gratefully accepted.
See you there!

Sunday Choir

Come on out and make a joyful noise
2nd and 4th Sundays at 9:30 AM

Chalice Singers

Choir practices on
Thursday evenings at 7:15 PM
We're a fun group. Come and join us.

HISTORY CORNER

One of my daughters once wished that she went to a real church: a church with a steeple.

The Church of the Redeemer (Universalist) was the home of this congregation from 1874 to 1949. Its steeple joined those of Trinity Anglican (victim of the wreckers ball last week), Brunswick Street Methodist, St. Georges Anglican and Saint Patrick’s in dominating Halifax’s skyline. This steeple was damaged in the Halifax explosion and subsequently shortened. The building was sold in 1949 to St. Patrick’s who used it as a bingo hall for many years. It was then sold to a developer and converted to condos. It is presently a centrepiece of a revitalized block of Brunswick Street. Pictures of this building’s exterior and interior are displayed on our history wall. Many artifacts from this building are part of our present church home.

Our chalice table and pulpit are the two levels of the original pulpit from the Brunswick Street building. The dark varnish so loved by 19th century churches was removed in the late 1970s to reveal the natural grain of the wood. If you examine these pieces carefully, you can see where the lines for the original gaslights were run.

The organ pipes displayed on the west wall of the worship room are some of the 525 pipes of the organ from the Church of the Redeemer. This instrument was built by George H. Ryder of Boston and installed in 1874. The arrangement of the pipes was the work of the Rev Dick Perry.

We have two pews from this church. The one in the front ballroom is its original size while that in the front hall was shortened to fit. The original church had seating for 400; however, by the 1940s a number of pews had rotted due to chronic roof leaks and were replaced by 100 chairs. Our pews were survivors of that purge and remained in the building in its role as a bingo hall. In their original role, they were soberly encased in dark varnish.

Finally, we have the three pulpit chairs, a large throne for the minister and two smaller side chairs. When the Brunswick Street building was sold, these items were loaned to the Jost Mission who was located on Brunswick Street opposite the clock tower. These items were returned to the church in the 1970s and a number of church members created bright new covers for their seats and backs through needlepoint. Given that it was the 70s, oranges and yellows dominated these covers. For a time, these pieces were used in our worship room; however, as our congregation increased it was felt they occupied too much space. Anyone wishing to see the throne can ask Allyn or Scott for a tour of our basement some Sunday morning.

Allyn Clarke

Atlantic School of Theology Arts News

Recognizing the historical relationship between art and religion, the Atlantic School of Theology (AST) has begun a 2-year pilot project to cultivate awareness of the relationship between contemporary theology and contemporary arts through exhibitions and performances. This new initiative, which is expected to include sacred music concerts and artist residencies, begins with a program of visual art exhibitions utilizing the AST Library as its gallery. All events and exhibitions are open to the public.

The first exhibition, work by Halifax photographer Margot Metcalfe, runs from October 16 to November 22, 2008.

In January there will be an exhibition of works by painter Don Pentz and potter/sculptor Louise Pentz. For more information, contact Exhibitions Director Regina Coupar through the AST.
Scott Donovan

ANNOUNCEMENTS

Canvass Kickoff – November 2

Service Leadership Training and Fellowship Day
Saturday, November 22nd, 10:00 to 3:00

Would you like to become a service leader or service assistant? Would you like more understanding about how service leaders are trained? Sign up for this one-day event. Training for new service leaders and assistants will occur in the morning; in the afternoon current service leaders will join us for mentoring and sharing. Call Susan Stephen (902-351-2739) or Carolyn Humphreys (477-7698) or email either of us (see your directory) to get your name on the list.

Real courage is risking something you have to keep on living with; real courage is risking something that might force you to rethink your thoughts and suffer change and stretch consciousness. Real courage is risking one's cliches—Tom Robbins

Susan Stephen

Hike – Old Annapolis Road
22 November 08

The November hike will be the Old Annapolis Road trail maintained by the Bowater Mersey Company on their lands inshore of the Head of St. Margarets. This is a nice walk along a lakeshore and through a variety of forests. The hike is of moderate difficulty. Boardwalks cover most of the wet areas.

Meet at the church at 12:30 or at the park-and-ride lot at the intersection of the Bay Road and Prospect Road at 12:45, or at the parking lot for the Old Annapolis Road trail at 1:10.

To get to the trail by road, leave Halifax by the 103 (or Bedford by the Hammonds Plain Road). Highway 103 reduces to two lanes just beyond the Tantallon interchange. As you follow 103 south down the hill past the Hydro Power Station on the right there is a gravel road crossing the highway. Turn right onto this gravel road and follow the signs to the trailhead.

If you get lost or are running late, call me at 483- 4731.

Allyn Clarke

FROM OUR CONGREGANTS

Meet Your Fellow UU: Carl Johnston
By Helen McFadyen

I recently met with Carl Johnston over a coffee at Tim’s. I didn’t know much about Carl, except that he is retired after a long career with Air Canada. What a surprise to discover some of these fascinating details about Carl’s life!

Born in 1936 in Sydney, Cape Breton, Carl’s Scottish heritage “goes back to the first Highland Scots that settled in Cape Breton”. His father was a WW I veteran severely wounded at Vimy Ridge. Carl told me that as a child, he would ask (as only a child could), “Dad why do you have four belly-buttons?” Carl grew up at a time when high unemployment meant that family life was not one of luxury. “We ate lots of homemade cooking”, he told me with a smile in his voice. Carl had two brothers and one sister. He described his Catholic education with nuns: “They could be tough, but they were good, dedicated teachers”. Sports and a fascination with flying and airplanes filled his childhood. At seventeen Carl earned his pilot’s license through the Air Cadets, which he says, turned his life around. “I realized that if I wanted to get anywhere, I needed to get a good education”. He hoped one day to fly as an airline pilot, but after crashing a Tiger Moth, he realized it wasn’t a great plan for someone who is accident-prone.

Subsequently he turned his attention elsewhere. He attended St. Francis Xavier University where he took his B.Sc. degree in Geology. This provided exciting summer employment in geological explorations all over Canada, enabling him to finance “what I REALLY wanted to study…” He then attained a degree in Education at St. FX. The following year he received a bursary to study clinical psychology at Dalhousie. After his internship, he worked for several years in the mental health clinic in Truro. He received a fellowship to the University of Alberta for further studies in Educational Psychology, but did not have enough money to follow through with the move. Carl explains that at that point in his life, he had already married his high-school sweetheart, Marguerite, and fathered three children. An opportunity to join a management consultant firm to work in organizational psychology came up in Montreal. His work involved “application of psychological principles and concepts in organizations’ work structures, processes and dynamics”. I translated: “In other words, you helped organizations maximize the potential of their work force”. He worked in this field for six years, by which time two more children had been born.

I asked about his work and its impact on family life. He explained, “I am only starting to appreciate now what a big job it was for Marguerite. We had five children (all within seven years). She took care of the home and my job was the three P’s…provide, protect and prepare”.

In 1968, an assignment came along with Air Canada who eventually offered him a job working as an internal consultant in Management and Organizational Development. He worked on special projects addressing problems in virtually every aspect of Air Canada’s operations. His work provided Carl with plenty of travel opportunities, though he said that he “saw a lot of airports and hotels”. He told me how much he loved his exciting 25-year career. He observed wryly that “I wouldn’t want to be there now”.

I brought him back to his UU connection. He explains that he had drifted away from the Catholic Church because of the dogma and mythology, though he is grateful for the education it provided. We exchanged stories of childhood ‘fire and brimstone’ style indoctrination. He told me that when he was a kid, he would make room in his bed for his ‘guardian angel’. I retorted that “I had to make room in my bed for my sister”, which caused us both to laugh.

He attended UU fellowships in Montreal and Toronto. He returned to Nova Scotia nine years ago to be near his mother whose health was failing. He found his way to the UU Church of Halifax. Some of you will remember Carl’s term as president. In his youth, he also sang in his church choir and the Gregorian choir at St. FX. I chided him about not coming to UU choir practice. Carl said that he now chooses to lead a quiet life and has drifted away from many things. He noted that he is not quite as extroverted and gregarious as he once was. I asked why this is. “I got older, I guess”, he replied with a wry smile in his tone. His interests now include golf, reading (mostly history), and listening to CBC radio. He also writes stories and poetry, and finds writing therapeutic.

We talked politics a bit. He revealed that his father had been a union organizer during the ‘dirty thirties’. Carl must have been an attentive child… because later in life, Carl worked as an organizer for the CCF and he and his wife once had dinner with his hero, Tommy Douglas. Now this really impressed me!

Within our UU community lies a wealth of stories and experiences intricately woven in the lives of each its members. Sharing our personal histories, as Carl has with me, enriches us all.

More Politically Incorrect Environmentalism

Governments, you want to encourage greater use of public transit? Then remove the tax on bus fuel. Farmers have enjoyed tax free “purple gas” in the past. On November 19, Ralph Martin, our Sunday speaker, traveled from Truro to Halifax by bus. Lower fares due to purple gas would nudge others into taking the bus.

We UUs could make bus travel a little more friendly by sacrificing a bit of our lawn for an attractive bus shelter.

Organizations, discourage meetings that require air travel. Use teleconferencing.

Henry Lackner

Lunch for Many – in Bridgewater

We had an unusual variation on the ‘Dinners for Eight’ format last month, and it turned out to be very successful and highly enjoyable all around. Dean White had happened to mention to me that there is a restaurant in Bridgewater that is nice and is run by a woman who spent some years in Sri Lanka. I asked Dean whether we could try a ‘Lunch for Many’ at this restaurant some Sunday when the weather was nice, and Dean thought that it was an idea worth trying.

We had originally planned to go on the first Sunday in September the 7th; but had to postpone it because that was to be Julie’s first service with us as the new Minister, followed by a finger food potluck. Turned out that Hurricane Hanna was to visit Halifax that day and would not have been a nice day anyway. We tried the next Sunday, but there was a meeting of the Worship committee that day. So finally the stars (especially the sun) aligned well on the 21st and away we went. It turned out to be a really well attended function. We carpooled after canvassing how many people wanted to go and who had cars.

We were expecting maybe six or seven people to have the energy to drive all the way to Bridgewater for lunch after the Sunday service. Boy, were we pleasantly surprised – triple our expectation and you are in the right ballpark. Here is who came – (based on the order of who sat where) – Vi Cohen, John Carson, Anne Knight-Gorman, Denyse Brothers, Shripad Pendse, Cynthia Connor, Dean White, Sylvia Lonergan, Roy Hamilton, Alison Chipman, Sass Minard, John Paterson, Sandra Clarke, Charlotte Myhre, Deborah Wiggins, The Rev. Julie Denny-Hughes, Elizabeth Greenhavens, Faye Mingo, and Pat Sarratt. Here is a photo of those who attended, courtesy of Faye.

We had a wonderful lunch at Cranberry's Dining Room at the Fairview Inn. And that was just the beginning. After the lunch we piled back into cars to visit Dean’s house. Dean told us we could choose from apple pie, blueberry pie, lemon pie and a coconut pie, to be supplemented with several kinds of ice cream and coffee and tea. All this sweet collection, combined with a gorgeous view of the Lahave River from Dean’s house, and the company of fellow UUs, made the occasion a truly memorable one. And the fact that we carpooled meant that everyone got to meet and chat with a small group of people on the way there and back, getting to know them much better than we could over coffee after the service. Thanks so much, Dean, for your great hospitality. Maybe we should try this idea again sometime, visiting yet another place. Any ideas?

Shripad Pendse